“Plant
it … water it… nurture it …Prune it (get rid of the old) …and watch it grow…”
The soul tree reflects relationships on
different levels and magnitude, time , change and weather... The one
(relationship that is) you have with
yourself and the one you have with others. The secret is to do it silence … The
soul tree helps you get through the tough times,
When me a certain best friend of mine (female) and at the time we decided to take our friendship to a relationship level status ( more or less making it official)… after 6 months of back and forth on the issue not wanting to destroy the friendship with relationship clutters clinginess ouside influence and propaganda. Before embarking on this life experience with added physical pleasures ( guiltless physical pleasures), we agreed to plant a soul a tree and if survived then it was meant to be . A soul tree was our concept . the concept we came up with and designed for the possibility conflict between us and for the rough times “we” might well we would surely, face as a unit in life in general and in case of a serious fight between us that could be resolved within 48 hours yep its soul tree time.
The
unique thing about the soul tree when we had it, was that when we were around
it together we didn’t talk at all it was about presence and essence , we
watered nurtured pruned and fertilised the tree, but never spoke, strangely
enough we never spoke about problems either , it was in the doing an
communicating with words that we remember why we were each others “Vow” ( that’s another
story unto its self), and conflict didn’t exist at the tree because we had to
work as a team and you can’t work with
some one angry or frustrated , if we needed to communicate we had to do it with
words and required harmony which required 3 elements conflict resolution, submission (yes
on both sides) and forgiveness, the cool thing was around the tree there was room
for pettiness , maybe it is “just us” but it always made us come closer growing
something together and helped find our roles in the relationship at the risk of
pissing off feminist we are not equal , for me it was a deep part of the cleaving
process something most people don’t do any more and wonder why they are getting
a divorce , your married to a stranger ( I am just saying). I am not an expert
but I do believe when we had one mind one heart one soul we managed to push the
world out and put ourselves in the right prospective… if you actually read the
book when it comes out “letters to my unborn” the soul tree is deep theme.
In
context of the soul tree most people in general don’t have a good relationship
with themselves, what does your inner conversation sound like ( have you ever
asked and better yet do you have the balls to honest with yourself about it),
at the end of the day you can only birth out of you what is inside you , your
relationship with your self will often be reflected by how you deal with crisis
and hard times. I love me some me not in an arrogant way, I make a lot of
mistakes in life a deep part of self-love ( for me) is self-forgiveness and the speed at which
you do it so I can get back in the game of asap , life doesn’t real let you
time out to long or it will kick you while your down. The world is hard enough
on me with me being hard on me as well because guess what ,where ever I go I am there to so “I and I” better be talking right or as Katt Williams says
are you in tune with your star Player, Change the inner conversation in your
head and you might change your life . I have not said anything negative to
myself for many years, watch …( standing in front of you smiling ) I am not
stupid , I made stupid decision in my
case in my head I would say I made I foolish one we laugh about it could of
being worse…
The
inner conversation is often set in your child hood but it can be changed … when
you know that you have your own back you face hard time with greater
confidence. Remember one thing the person you spend the most time in your life
with is you , so what are you telling your self I hope you’re not beating
yourself up smile.. Good luck with that
and look out for part 2
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