I am racing toward finishing the next book series ASap, because men are too proud to admit it but we are dying literally. Cold brutal truth %50-60% of the men I grow up with are dead the older ones and younger ones close friends uncles cousins nephews fathers, trying to medicate secret pain. Suicide diseases alcohol or drug related death battling secret pain and depression. I asked a very simple question to group men and the responses scared the shit out of me… what did I ask? “Do you feel you will ever be happy genuinely happy” and because it was all men they told the truth most of them said no and in the silent ones it was in the eye’s. I am not the second coming as a man I have my struggles but I am happy I am connected to something and at the expense of being called soft I am hoping to drop some crumbs of wisdom in my book that might help you maximize life and relationship. I wrote scarecrow and the rose to women to kill the false sense body image and beauty, and secondly because many women grew up without fathers and they did get a very simple thing called non sexual male affirmation and compromise standards and your body just to get whiff of what man thinks and masculine affirmation losing a daughter and gaining another really woke me up. The 3rd reason I wrote to women in the book was to lift insecurities imposed on you by society and sadly enough by your parents as a child very simple theme surface and depth do as I say not as I do lets pause right there technically the mask we all where. Okay I am writing letters to my unborn as a story dropping crumbs of wisdom and some of my own personal struggles with this man hood thing because I am sick and tired of watching men die waist life, and time battling depression and acting crazy dealing with secret pain. Say whatever you want but as early I3 that’s first suicide of someone my age. Then this year 5 men I know woke up in the morning decided they would never be happy gave up on life and committed suicide secret pain. So be masculine silent and die or get help live and maximise life and happiness, money won’t help you sex won’t cure alcohol and drugs make it worse. I am not saying this to get book sales I left music to write because and hear me clearly men we dying. I don’t have a insist solution to complicated problem but I know if I can be happy maybe and really enjoy relationships and work you can.
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